Decide where you want to get to…
It maybe you have a clear idea of your long-term goals but are not sure you can get there on your own.
It maybe you are not sure exactly where you want to get to but you know your current situation is deeply unsatisfactory and something has to change.
Even relatively straightforward attempts to change are not without difficulty. 80% of New Year’s Resolutions fail by February!
Ultimately though, setting the destination and choosing the route is down to you. You are the one who has to take action. You are the most important person in all of this.